Preventing Stress in Children

A child is a person who is still very unstable. Feelings and their psychological condition is still very easy to change. Therefore, as the person closest to the baby, we as parents must be sensitive to the situation, physically and mentally. Do not let us do not know the state of our children because of our busyness. Stress, is a state experienced by everyone, including our baby. So how do our attitudes, as parents, to prevent stress and at least reduce the level of stress experienced by our baby?
 
1. Vacation
Vacation is very important for our children. After nearly a week for our children busy with activities related to school, then you should at weekends, you are willing to spend some time for our children. It is very important to provide an opportunity to simply unwind, or refreshing. It is also beneficial to reduce the tensions felt our children while studying at school or while doing activities outside of school (such as tutoring and tutoring). So on weekends, it would be better if not filled with the guidance and lessons-learned lessons that will increasingly make your baby do not feel any lag time can make them feel out of all the bustle-bustle associated with the academic.

2. Praise
As a parent, do not be too expensive to praise our children. Small compliments that we speak of great value for our children. Compliments are a source of motivation for our children in doing good qualities in their lives, especially the praise that comes from parents. So in each of the kids doing good things, do not hesitate to praise our children, so they are motivated to re-do the things that good.

3. Award
The meaning of this award is similar to the praise. Award can we give to our children, now children do good things. For example, when the children we get good performance at school. You can give them a new toy or treat your children to their favorite restaurant. This is very significant for our children, because with the award, your baby will be more motivated to do good things, such as more diligent study. With this award, then we do not need to give punishment to our baby when they make mistakes, as a form of punishment can be a way not to give awards to our children. For example, when the children fail to get a good grade on an exam school, we give punishment to our children by not giving a new toy.

4. Do not let the baby weighed down by our problems
Each person must never be separated from the problem, not least ourselves. For children we can live their lives properly, it would be better for us to not let our baby weighed down by our problems. And when the children we are having problems, remain always at his side, and helped our children to solve problems that he faced.

5. Becoming Companions
Not everyone can be close to superiors in their workplace. Most of the subordinates feel reluctant to close with their superiors, because at work we did apply the system in which subordinates must respect his superiors and obey his superiors' orders. But in family life, such a system should be eliminated. As parents, it would be better if we make our children as our friend. Do not make such a distance that can make us feel reluctant children to us. This reluctance can make children we can not open with the problems he experienced. Not much of a problem if the problems experienced by our children comes from outside the home, but if the problem is from ourselves, it will become very complicated and difficult to resolve if the children we've felt reluctant to us to be open.

6. Togetherness
Togetherness within a family is also very important. This could bring in and grow in emotional closeness between one family member with other family members. Do not hesitate to do something together, such as house cleaning, meals, sightseeing in the morning, and others. This togetherness can make a children do not ever feel alone, because they feel they have a family who can be invited to share and joke with one another.

7. Helping our Children
When the our children had difficulty in doing something, do not hesitate to help him. For example, when our children made about the difficulty in doing homework, as parents, be the first person to help our children resolve the issue.

8. The expression of love darling
The expression of affection can be so many kinds. It could be a kind word or action. In the form of speech, we can give utterance "I love you " or "Good night" to our baby before they slept. We can also give them a kiss of affection. Or a way to celebrate their birthdays, and will be better again by holding the "Surprise" on their birthdays. Of course this will really make your children feel themselves so valuable.